sábado, 30 de diciembre de 2017

Twins are here!

Here is what I sent to my children and mother via e-mail on the 23rd when the twins were born:

 Mary is doing great.  The twins are in incubators and we visited them briefly.  Jack was 5 pounds, Galileo was 4.5 pounds.  Both were born on 23 December 2017.  Here are a few photos.  Mary asks that no photos or news be posted on social media until she has time to tell a few 
people and post for herself.  


Jack is below.  He is the larger baby, but is on a respirator until his lungs catch up.  Jack weighed 2.3 kilos (about 5 pounds at birth).


Galileo is the smaller baby.  He weighed 2 kilos (about 4 and 1/2 pounds) at birth.  He does not need the respirator.  He is breathing well on his own.



Official names:

Jack Alberto Bullon Moses

and 

James Galileo Bullon Moses

Seems that we have fallen into the habit of calling them Jack and Galileo.  

My blogs are mainly for myself.  Feel free to look through for photos.  Remember that blogs are backwards....the older posts are at the end and the newer posts are at the beginning.  I have no phone service in Lima, but I can get e-mails and texts.  So feel free to contact me at any time by either method.  I have both my computer and my phone.  

Happy New Year to all!

Close to the time that we hope to bring the boys home, I added the below two photos with footprints:



Saturday, 29 December

I made a starbucks run this morning for Mary and me as I was up early and Mary was very enthusiastic about having a latte.  Thank goodness for Uber!  It makes every thing I do easier!  My phone doesn't work in Peru.  But Mary did for me what I do for her in the United States:  signed up for a small, portable internet device which makes it possible to text and call Uber.  Uber means that I can use the app to get my ride and tell the driver where I want to go TOTALLY IN ENGLISH!  And then I don't have to figure out the money nor pay for the ride....it is already done.  And even more important in my mind is the fact that the driver won't drive ten blocks out of the way to make the price higher....his price is fixed no matter the traffic or route.  And there is a bit of a sense of security knowing that he is not likely to rob me or whatever as my driver's name and license plate are on file somewhere in the Uber cyberspace.






Tonight Alberto tried to give me his spot in the neonatal unit, but I insisted he go again with Mary.  The babies are growing and each day seeing them becomes more fun.  But I have had several turns and I am glad for them to go together.  A few more photos:

Alberto and Galileo:



Selfie of Mary, Alberto and Jack:



I laughed when they sent me these photos from their Kangaroo session.  I said to myself...this HAS to be Jack....look at those Hawkins legs!  Jack has been all about stretching and kicking his legs from the very first!



Mary and Jack:



The 33rd week is the week that babies learn to suck.  So these boys were born not yet knowing how to suck to get nourishment.  The nurses at first fed them with eye droppers.  Luckily Mary had purchased a nice breast pump and is diligent in providing milk.  But the boys are also receiving some supplement until Mary's milk is plentiful enough to provide for twins.  Everyone is working to try to get both boys used to the sucking process....and finally in the last day or two, both boys are getting better with the bottle.  Below is Alberto feeding Galileo who is better at the bottle process than Jack.





Below is Jack in clothes.  Adding clothes and beginning to take the temperature down in the incubator is a big step in getting closer to going home:



Galileo is getting ready to take that next step in getting clothes as well:



Alberto feeding Galileo:

viernes, 29 de diciembre de 2017

Friday, 29 December

Mary and Alberto went early to see the babies.  It is not visitor day, so I can not be included.  It is OK.  I saw plenty of the babies the first few days and I will get to hold them very soon when they come home.  So I started the blog and printed out a few maps and got a bit organized.  Mary's housekeeper, Maria, came today.  She cooked lunch for us!  It was wonderful.  Dark meat chicken pieces (my favorite) and a Peruvian rice mixture.  

So my new Spanish words for the day are muy bien.  this would be in the case where someone asks you how you are:  Muy bien.

and muy rico would be yummy.....
and muy bueno is very good as in something tastes very good.

Mary and Alberto plan to do the Kangaroo this evening, so I plan to go to the mall to do a little shopping.   Mary suggested Real Plaza.  However, she also suggested that it might be packed and jammed as everyone is on holiday!  And it was.

But on the way, I decided to stop at a yarn shop.  (imagine that, huh)  It was close by.  I laughed and laughed at myself at the little adventure that I had.  The yarn shop was not a shop at all.  It was a booth in an open air market in the Lince area of Peru.  I could immediately see that the store was TERRIBLE!  Nothing of any interest at all.....maybe 20 balls of cheap terrible yarn!  I started to tell the driver that I would just change my destination, but then decided to take a look around.  It was actually fun.  It was DEFINITELY NOT touristy.  Only locals anyplace to be seen.  But there was lots of action!





And booth after booth of Yellow underwear in every size and for both sexes.....What the heck is that about?  Alberto and Mary said that it is traditional to wear yellow underwear for New Year's.....but that neither of them do that....but it seems others do wear the gear:







Sunday, 24 December to Thursday 29 December

The next days are a blur to me what happened when!  After a bit of discussion between Mary and Alberto, the babies were given names:  Jack Alberto Bullon Moses is the larger baby (at birth....as I write this he is catching up fast) and James Galileo Bullon Moses is the smaller baby at birth.  The decision was made before the babies were born that the first names would be Gringo names and the middle names would be chosen by Alberto.   Jack is the name that Mary's paternal grandfather and father went by during their lives and James is the first name of Mary's maternal grandfather:  James Marshall Hawkins.  For middle names Jack received Alberto's first name while James received Alberto's middle name.

Alberto was not able to get to the hospital as quickly as I was.  He was in Boston with his family when the babies arrived.  This turned out to be a plus for me as the hospital allowed two people to do what they call Kangaroo each day.  And I was allowed as I was the grandmother.  Kangaroo involves holding the babies for three hours skin on skin so that they are hearing one's heart and breathing and staying warm while having contact with someone who loves them.  It was wonderful holding a twin and hanging out with Mary!  I loved every minute of it.  So because the time is a blur for me, the below are just photos in no particular order of my experiences.

You can tell that the baby below is Jack as he has the respirator which he need for the first few days.  We were quite relieved when he was able to breathe entirely on his own.  I took this photo by sneaking in my phone into the neo-natal room that the boys shared this week.  Both are still in an incubator as I write this on Friday.  But they are making good progress each day.  Today is the first day that both boys have actually gained weight!  This is huge progress as they are creeping up on the weight that they need to be to go home.





The next photo is of Galileo as he did not need the respirator.  He was able to breathe on his own from the first.


And Mary was able to touch him earlier than Jack:







Every day I mostly hung out in Mary's room.  It was a huge room with a view of the Inca ruins that are in Miraflores.  Olger explained that these ruins are not so much the most important Inca ruins in the area.  Instead it is because these ruins are in Miraflores which is a more affluent neighborhood and the neighborhood is involved in preserving them.  There is a restaurant adjoining the ruins and the proceeds from the restaurant go towards the cost of the preservation project.  We have agreed that one evening we will go there for dinner as you can take your glass of wine and do a short ten minute tour or "look around".  

What would we have done without Mary's neighbors?  Carolina hung out with us the first day and did the errands that made our life so much easier!  Her pretty balloons brightened the room!

Vicky also hung out with us the first day and met the delivery man so that we would have some groceries and things that we needed!  And Vicky's husband, Jaime, is the neighbor who sent his driver to pick me up at the airport!  Wonderful neighbors!

Mary's apartment is so comfortable!  And the views are amazing:







When I wasn't spending time at the hospital, I was, of course, on my computer or knitting the blanket pattern that Sarah and I chose to make for the twins.  I think it is turning out very pretty.




And a last few photos in the neo natal room while we did the Kangaroo thing:






The last few photos are from Christmas night.  My Huntington family were nice enough to call  after they finished dinner at Katie and Joel's home and while they were opening gifts.  Jason did the honors of camera man. It was honestly just like being there!  Most of the gifts for my kids and my older grandkids were not huge surprises to the recipient.   The twins received more smaller gifts instead of one larger gift.  I think that Mia's favorite item from me was a very soft, furry blanket that had a unicorn's head on it.....just her kind of item!  Kya had picked out much of what she received, but there were clothes that I had bought for both girls.  I noticed Kya grabbed the white jeans and put them in her pile while leaving the rest of the clothes in the communal pile.   It is fun.....I miss the kids so much.

Peru's big Christmas celebration is Christmas Eve.  The hospital was nice enough to send me a dinner for Christmas Eve.  But on Christmas, they did not feel the need to do anything extra.  So after I spent the time with My Huntington group,  I decided that Mary was very tired and that I needed to let her go to bed....so we talked and she said that there was an Italian Trattoria just down the street that might be open and I headed home.  The place was only two blocks away and it was charming.  My Spanish is unusually terrible, and my ordering was less than perfect, but it was a very nice Christmas dinner.






Saturday, 23 Dec 2017

Mary's neighbor, Jaime, sent his driver to pick me up at the airport.  The flight was exactly on time and my bags were some of the first to come off the flight.  Olger and Salomon met me in the lobby of the apartment building and helped me to get the bags up the elevator and into the apartment....and we were off to the hospital!  It was WONDERFUL having Olger deliver me safely to Clinica Delgado!  Once there Paola came out from the operating room to tell me that Mary was doing great and both babies were well.  Jack (the larger baby) had respiratory problems and had been wisked away just after birth.  But Paola and Mary had been able to see Galileo!  And while the twins were small they were strong and healthy!  Later after we were all back in Mary's room, we all agreed that Mary had been quite lucky that neither Alberto nor I had been able to get to Peru in time to be the one and only person who could accompany Mary into the delivery room.  Neither Alberto nor I would have done the absolutely wonderful job that Paola did in taking photos and being with Mary.  Her photos were amazing!  It was the next best thing to having actually have been there myself!  Paola and Olger are wonderful!


















Jack had already been wisked away because of his respiratory problems, so I know the below baby is Galileo:




Mary in her room......just back from recovery:




Mary and me soon after I arrived.

22 December 2017

The packing went well.  Katie came and helped me a bit at the end as I was beginning to panic.  The biggest thing that she did was to weigh and measure the bags and reassure me that they were going to let me on the plane with my luggage as it was.  Jason found a driver to run me up to the airport.  Katie had offered, but I preferred help with the luggage since Jason had no problem finding someone to drive. One entire bag was filled with baby "stuff" and things that Mary had bought and sent via MANY boxes for the entire month of December.  I had bought the huge bag at Target the night before, but the website said that I wasn't allowed that large of a bag....instead I could have the two bags that had combined measurements of 60 inches or less and one carry on.  All went well and I arrived at CRW exactly on time.  And then I was lucky enough to have three excellent flights.  Although I arrived at the gate in Dallas as they were making the final call for boarding.  All was well!

I would add that I had VERY expensive airline tickets to sit in a window seat in the main cabin.  It was OK.  I was glad to be flying.  On the plane from Charlotte to Dallas, I sat with a woman who is an artist and was flying to be with her son and his friends for the holiday.  She gave the twins a wonderful gift of a book that was done by one of her good buddies who is also an artist:



















Thursday, 21 December 2017

December was a roller coaster ride with Mary's pregnancy.  We lived from Thursday to Thursday when she would go to the doctor to see if she could continue to carry the twins.  The larger twin was growing quite well and remained in the top 10% of growth for babies for his gestational stage.  The smaller twin continued to fall in size percentile for babies of his gestational stage.  They believed that his placenta was not providing full nourishment and etc.  So the trick is to decide at which point he is better off out of the womb and into the "hard, cold world".  When that time would come, both babies would be delivered.  I wavered back and forth whether to spend time getting ready to go to Peru or to be ready for Christmas day.  And thus, I was not very efficient at either task.

Finally on the Thursday morning of December 21st, the doctor indicated that he believed all was going well and that it was quite likely that the twins could make it to New Years's.  And I began to make plans to do Christmas at home.....putting off all of the things on my list that could wait until the 26th....The roller coaster was going up and I was full of plans!

Luckily, Mom had asked me to come and have lunch at Woodlands with her and Lynn Weston and Marilyn Cohen, so I didn't do the chore that made sense for that day:  GROCERY SHOPPING for the Christmas meal.  By 2:00 that afternoon, Mary was calling to say that she had begun bleeding and that she was on the way to the hospital.  And the roller coaster started down again.....I began to look for airplane tickets.

But the roller coaster ride continued as Mary would text to say it looked as if they would send her home....and then they had decided to do more tests....etc....Finally about dinner time, her text was that they were going to keep her overnight and it looked as if they would do a c-section on Saturday.  I began looking for tickets very seriously.  Delta had absolutely NOTHING!  That is our preferred route from CRW to Peru.  It was the Friday before Christmas and the biggest travel day of the year!  I called, I looked over and over....and finally reached the decision that I had to look for another route.

The best that I could find was with American:  Charlotte>Dallas>Peru.  I would arrive at 6:15 Saturday morning after flying all night.  Mary would go into the operating room at 6am.  I would miss seeing her, but it was the best that I could do.  So I bought the tickets and began packing.  Since then Alberto ended up coming back through Orlando on a Peruvian airline.  That might be something that I could try in the future as I could take a non-stop from Huntington to Orlando making it only two stops to Lima.

And I began finishing last minute Christmas "stuff" and packing in earnest.  Thank goodness I did not have a refrigerator full of groceries!